Former members in bad standing are not eligible to rejoin. We reserve the right to deny or revoke a membership for any reason at any moment.

• You are a non-toxic 21+ age human.
• You don’t misrepresent yourself.
• You have and maintain a good reputation.
• You always abide by our governing structure.
• You have never been convicted or accused of a violent or white collar crime.
• You're an ally, have an interest, practice kink or any model of an alternative lifestyle.

For the moment, there is no financial cost to join. If you meet the self-attest eligibility and pass our pre-vetting for casual socials, you'll be welcome. We operate on a zero-tolerance policy; you have one chance to prove you belong.

Once approved, you are free to explore our spaces. Be prepared for personal investments in your journey. While casual meets are relaxed, all formal parties require mandatory ID verification to ensure collective safety.

To expand our impact, we're dedicated to securing a discreet, physical sanctuary. This space would become our sacred anchor—a safe place to honor, celebrate, and transform our community.